Tuesday, June 28, 2011

More of "we", "us". Less "I", "me"

    When I think about you us, it makes me smile.

           In a relationship or "love", we shouldn`t just think about the other person or just yourself. Otherwise, you will either get hurt or become selfish. It`s important that you think about the two of you. But before you can do that, you have to make memories with her, you need to have something between the two of you. Love often fails when the other person doesn`t feel the same way for you, when you`re the only one who`s in love. And during this state, you`ll think or treat that person like a princess, like a goddess. Like she is perfect. That`s where you start thinking just about the person and how she makes you feel. You don`t think of yourself. That`s why you get hurt. But don`t worry because that`s just in your mind, that`s just all your imagination.  And you can always change that. Change how you think, and everything will follow through. It`s not that easy? I say yes, it is if you`re willing to.

          Of course there`s a way on how not to get to that state where you think of the other person as god-like. This will take some guts and you should be prepared. When you start liking someone, keep getting to know them, hangout with them, be with them. If you`re sure that you really like this person, let her go. When I said `let go`, you don`t literally let them go. Letting someone go means that you are prepared by their answer. Which there`s only two, either a yes or a no. If she said yes, then you just made your first step to her heart. If she said no, then be cool with it, still be friends, don`t start ignoring her and accept the fact the she`s not that into you and move on. THERE`S NO OTHER WAY ON GETTING THE GIRL YOU LIKE BUT TO TELL WHAT YOU FEEL FOR HER. AND TO HAVE CONFIDENCE.
    

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